Protocols of a Successful Self & Family : Protocols of a Successful Self & Family Responsibility It has been narrated on the authority of Ibn 'Umar that the Holy Prophet (May be upon him) said: Beware. every one of you is a shepherd and every one is answerable with regard to his flock. The Caliph is a shepherd over the people and shall be questioned about his subjects (as to how he conducted their affairs). A man is a guardian over the members of his family and shall be questioned about them (as to how he looked after their physical and moral well-being). A woman is a guardian over the household of her husband and his children and shall be questioned about them (as to how she managed the household and brought up the children). A slave is a guardian over the property of his master and shall be questioned about it (as to how he safeguarded his trust). Beware, every one of you is a guardian and every one of you shall be questioned with regard to his trust. Exceptional Parenting D Y P Potential Your Discovering
Slide 2 : D Y P Potential Your Discovering Exceptional Parenting Discipline Abu Bakr admonished me and poked me with his hands in the flank, and nothing stopped me from moving at that time except the position of Allah's Apostle whose head was on my thigh. Abu dawuud The Prophet said: Order your children to pray at the age of seven. And beat them [lightly] if they do not do so by the age of ten. And separate them in their bedding. Sahih Bukhari Protocols of a Successful Self & Family
Slide 3 : D Y P Potential Your Discovering Exceptional Parenting Education Choices
Mainstream Schooling
Home Schooling
Dunya or Aakhira Protocols of a Successful Self & Family
Slide 4 : D Y P Potential Your Discovering Protocols of a Successful Self & Family Exceptional Parenting Family Bonding All work and no play
The wife is superwoman
“I can’t fish but I love football
“I have forgotten who my wife is as well as myself”
Slide 5 : D Y P Potential Your Discovering Protocols of a Successful Self & Family Exceptional Parenting Communication “You think you’ve had it hard all day...”
“Your always out”
“The children are your job”
“ You’ve never bought me flowers
“Dad, do you love me?”
“How come you have never told me?” Abu Salmah related that Abu Hurayrah said, "The Prophet of Allah kissed Hasan ibn 'Ali while Aqra' ibn Habis was sitting nearby. Aqra' said, 'I have ten children and have never kissed one of them.' The Prophet looked at him and said, 'Those who show no mercy will be shown no mercy.'"
Slide 6 : D Y P Potential Your Discovering Protocols of a Successful Self & Family Exceptional Parenting Emotional Intelligence 40,000 neurons
Artificial Intelligence – the brain has not real power
The brain listens to the heart not the other way around
Nurturing the E.I