An Introduction toPositive Parenting Solutions : 1 An Introduction toPositive Parenting Solutions
What we do… : What we do… Free Live Training Webinars
Web 2.0 Online Parenting Class
One-on-One Coaching 2
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Helping Parents Correct… : Helping Parents Correct… Not Listening
Backtalk - Demanding
Tantrums
Sibling Arguing/Fighting
Lack of Motivation
Lying – Sneakiness
Public Misbehavior
Hitting / Biting Disrespect - Rudeness
Chores Wars
Whining
Dawdling
Bedtime / Meal Battles
Homework
“Attitude”
Helplessness 5
Basic Tenants of Positive Discipline… : Basic Tenants of Positive Discipline… Dignity & Respect is a 2-way street
Punishment & Discipline are not created equal.
Kindness & Firmness
Understand & Treat the Root Cause of Misbehavior
Foster capability, independence, & self-sufficiency. 6
Why do kids really misbehave? : Why do kids really misbehave? A child’s primary goal is to achieve belonging and significance. 7
Belonging: : Belonging: Emotionally connected
Secure about my place in the family
Have sufficient POSITIVE attention 8
Slide 9 : Humans are hard-wired with a need for positive attention. 9 Positive Attention
Significance: : Significance: I am capable
I make a difference
I contribute in meaningful ways
I have personal power 10
Slide 11 : Humans are hard-wired with a need for personal power. 11 Personal Power
Slide 12 : The child is really saying…
“I want to belong and feel significant, 12
Slide 13 : The child is really saying…
“I want to belong and feel significant,
but I don’t know how to do it.” 13
Slide 14 : So, instead…
“I’m going to demand your attention with annoying behaviors… 14
Slide 15 : So, instead…
“I’m going to demand your attention with annoying behaviors…
…because when I whine or cling to you… 15
Slide 16 : So, instead…
“I’m going to demand your attention with annoying behaviors…
…because when I whine or cling to you…
…at least I have your attention and feel like I belong.” 16
Slide 17 : And…
“I really need to feel significant and have positive power… 17
Slide 18 : And…
“I really need to feel significant and have positive power…
…but at least when you get upset because I have tantrums, don’t listen, talk back or ignore you… 18
Slide 19 : And…
“I really need to feel significant and have positive power…
…but at least when you get upset because I have tantrums, don’t listen, talk back or ignore you…
…it proves to me that I have power of my own.” 19
Slide 20 : The bottom line…
Children have a hard-wired need for attention (belonging) and power (significance). 20
Slide 21 : Our job is to give them attention and power in positive ways, so they don’t have to resort to negative behaviors to get it.
(Applies to all ages) 21
A few of the topics covered… : A few of the topics covered… Birth Order & Behavior
Parent Personality & Misbehavior… a connection?
Raising a Praise Junkie? Why it matters to your kids.
Fair & Effective Consequences
Pull the Plug on Power Struggles
Sibling Rivalry 22
Slide 23 : Take a Virtual Tour 23
The Outcomes… : The Outcomes… Improvement within 2-3 days after Tool #1.
Continued improvement with each new tool.
Getting on the Same Page
Calm Voice & Peaceful Home 24
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