How to Talk to the Opposite Sex : How to Talk to the Opposite Sex Maggi Carstairs
http://activeenglishspeaking.com
Greetings : Greetings Have you ever stopped to think about how many people are saying "hello" to each other today, and in how many different languages? If you wanted to say "hello" to everyone on the planet, you would have to learn at least 2,796 languages and greet at least 6,500,000,000 people…that’s a lot of people and a lot of languages
Smile : Smile The Universal Hello is a smile
Show your teeth when you smile : Show your teeth when you smile A friendly open smile usually shows teeth
What do you say next? : What do you say next? Many people say ‘How are you?
If you want to talk to someone, you should stop and answer
When it’s a person of the opposite sex, you suddenly get shy : When it’s a person of the opposite sex, you suddenly get shy And the person thinks you don’t want to talk to them, and walk on by
What should you do????
What would you say? : What would you say? What would you say to this young man?
What would you talk about? : What would you talk about? What would you say to Obama’s daughter?
Young Man About town : Young Man About town What would you talk about to this man?
Young Lady : Young Lady What would you say to this Lady?
What would you say? : What would you say? You need to find something in common to talk about?
Inviting for a Date : Inviting for a Date What would you say to someone to ask them out on a date?
Date for lunch or dinner : Date for lunch or dinner Suggest a restaurant…how would you invite someone to a restaurant with you?
What do you talk About? : What do you talk About? The restaurant
The Food
The town
Never Talk About : Never Talk About Your problems
Money
Getting married
Sex
You can talk to other people : You can talk to other people Talk to the new person like you would to another friend of the same sex…do not go quiet and shy
Let the other person talk, and you answer
What do you talk about when you go out with friends? : What do you talk about when you go out with friends? Family and friends
Work…something that happened at work
What you are sharing right now….place, weather, scenery
Do you need to talk all the time? : Do you need to talk all the time? Its also ice to be quiet and relaxed with someone…you do not need to talk and talk and talk
Talk about the news : Talk about the news Many people like to share what is on the News and talk about what is happening in the news
Share your views : Share your views http://Activeenglishspeaking.com
Start a blog, and write about what you talk about when you are with friends.
When you meet someone new, you can look at the list you made.
When you get to know someone, talking becomes easy
A good listener is also good company : A good listener is also good company Everybody likes to talk
Be a good listener and let the other person talk
They will say you are great company because they talked all the time
Everybody loves to talk
……so let them talk...and be a listener