The Art of Negotiating : The Art of Negotiating T. Sivasankaran
Advesh Consultancy Services
Chennai India
tss@advesh.com
Mobile: 09790971951 1 The Art of Negotiating Advesh Consultancy Services 1/14/2009
Slide 2 : Mastery Skill Knowledge Awareness 2 The Art of Negotiating Advesh Consultancy Services 1/14/2009
BASICS OF NEGOTIATION : BASICS OF NEGOTIATION 3 The Art of Negotiating Advesh Consultancy Services 1/14/2009
Slide 4 : We all negotiate, all the time- at home, with friends, at office, in public
These negotiations can be about anything
Negotiation is the most effective way of resolving conflicts and securing agreement
A two way discussion to agree terms
Conferring for the purpose of mutual agreement
A process of discussion aimed at reaching agreement
Establishing consensus amongst two or more parties 4 The Art of Negotiating Advesh Consultancy Services 1/14/2009
Negotiation Is : Negotiation Is A dialogue between two or more parties, with the intent of coming to a mutually agreed solution, because each party has something the other wants.
A communication process between two or more people in which they consider alternatives to arrive at mutually agreeable solutions or mutually satisfactory objectives 5 The Art of Negotiating Advesh Consultancy Services 1/14/2009
Slide 6 : Setting Goals
Balancing Outcome and Relationships 6 The Art of Negotiating Advesh Consultancy Services 1/14/2009
Setting Goals : Setting Goals BATNA
RESERVATION PRICE
ZOPA 7 The Art of Negotiating Advesh Consultancy Services 1/14/2009
BATNA : BATNA Best
Alternative
To a
Negotiated
Agreement 8 The Art of Negotiating Advesh Consultancy Services 1/14/2009
WHAT IS BATNA? : WHAT IS BATNA? How do the proposals match your realistic alternative if you cannot come to a deal?
The more attractive your BATNA is compared with the proposals you receive, the more POWER you have; the less attractive your BATNA is compared to the deal on offer, the less power you have. 9 The Art of Negotiating Advesh Consultancy Services 1/14/2009
BATNA : BATNA Retain the existing supplier
Go to another supplier
Strike/Lockout
Not an immediate requirement 10 The Art of Negotiating Advesh Consultancy Services 1/14/2009
DEVELOPING BATNA : DEVELOPING BATNA List what you would do if you fail to reach an agreement
Convert the most promising options into practical choices.
Select the single best option; that is your BATNA
Compare your BATNA to all proposals
If an offer is better than your BATNA,consider improving or accepting it
If an offer is worse than your BATNA, consider rejecting it
If they will not improve their offer consider exercising your BATNA 11 The Art of Negotiating Advesh Consultancy Services 1/14/2009
BATNA : BATNA Know your BATNA
Work with all the BATNAs
Be ready to walk 12 The Art of Negotiating Advesh Consultancy Services 1/14/2009
BATNA : BATNA Developed
by
Roger Fisher
and
William Ury 13 The Art of Negotiating Advesh Consultancy Services 1/14/2009
RESERVATION PRICE : RESERVATION PRICE Reservation Price
is
the least favourable point
at which
one will accept
a deal 14 The Art of Negotiating Advesh Consultancy Services 1/14/2009
ZOPA ZONE OF POSSIBLE AGREEMENT : ZOPA ZONE OF POSSIBLE AGREEMENT ZOPA is the area or range in which a deal that satisfies both parties can take place.
It is the set of agreements that potentially satisfy both parties. 15 The Art of Negotiating Advesh Consultancy Services 1/14/2009
EXAMPLE : EXAMPLE Sellers Expectation Buyers Expectation 16 The Art of Negotiating Advesh Consultancy Services 1/14/2009
BATNA Exercise 1 : BATNA Exercise 1 You have a good motor cycle which is 4 years old. It gives good mileage. However you want to replace it with a new one.
You have Rs 30000 cash in hand You want the balance to be arranged thru loan
You have 12% interest in your mind.
The financier is asking for 15%
What is your BATNA? 17 The Art of Negotiating Advesh Consultancy Services 1/14/2009
BATNA EXERCISE 3 : BATNA EXERCISE 3 You are attending an interview for change of job. You are in salary negotiation stage. You are concerned about your child’s education. Currently you are on a transferable job.You are demanding 30% increase. The new company is offering the same salary.
What is your BATNA? 18 The Art of Negotiating Advesh Consultancy Services 1/14/2009
Balancing Outcome and Relationships : Balancing Outcome and Relationships DISTRIBUTIVE NEGOTIATION
INTEGRATIVE NEGOTIATION 19 The Art of Negotiating Advesh Consultancy Services 1/14/2009
Distributive Negotiation : Distributive Negotiation A negotiation in which the parties compete over the distribution of a fixed sum of value.
Key question here is “Who will claim the most value?”
A gain by one party is at the expense of the other.
Win-lose situation 20 The Art of Negotiating Advesh Consultancy Services 1/14/2009
Integrative Negotiation : Integrative Negotiation A negotiation in which the parties cooperate to achieve the maximum benefits by integrating their interests into an agreement.
These deals are about creating value and claiming it.
Win-win situation. 21 The Art of Negotiating Advesh Consultancy Services 1/14/2009
STAGES OF NEGOTIATION : STAGES OF NEGOTIATION Phase 1: Preparation
Phase 2: Interacting
Phase 3: Agreement 22 The Art of Negotiating Advesh Consultancy Services 1/14/2009
Negotiation Process : Negotiation Process 23 The Art of Negotiating Advesh Consultancy Services 1/14/2009
PREPARATION : PREPARATION 24 The Art of Negotiating Advesh Consultancy Services 1/14/2009
PREPARATION : PREPARATION Understanding
one’s own position
and
interests of the other party or parties
the issues at stake,
and
alternative solutions. 25 The Art of Negotiating Advesh Consultancy Services 1/14/2009
PREPARATION : PREPARATION Consider What a good outcome would be for you and the other side.
Identify potential value creation opportunities
Identify your BATNA and Reservation Price and do the same for the other side.
Shore up your BATNA 26 The Art of Negotiating Advesh Consultancy Services 1/14/2009
PREPARATION : PREPARATION Anticipate the Authority Issue
Learn All you can About the Other Side
Prepare for Flexibility in the Process
Gather External Standards and Criteria Relevant to Fairness
Alter the process in your favour 27 The Art of Negotiating Advesh Consultancy Services 1/14/2009
CRITICAL ELEMENTS/DIMENSIONS OF NEGOTIATION : CRITICAL ELEMENTS/DIMENSIONS OF NEGOTIATION Knowledge or information
Time or Deadline Pressure
Strength or Power
All the above are inter-twined 28 The Art of Negotiating Advesh Consultancy Services 1/14/2009
INFORMATION : INFORMATION More information you have, the better you will be able to negotiate
Information and facts help you to generate alternatives, strategies and convince the other party
Information about the other party, market information, trends, technologies
Published Standards, guidelines, data equip you to put your points effectively 29 The Art of Negotiating Advesh Consultancy Services 1/14/2009
TIME : TIME Time plays a critical role in Negotiation
Pareto’s Law 80/20
80% of results are generally agreed upon in the last 20% of the time
Time / Deadline pressure weakens you / builds tension 30 The Art of Negotiating Advesh Consultancy Services 1/14/2009
POWER / STRENGTH : POWER / STRENGTH The ability to influence / control the group and the events
Besides the authority of your position, knowledge is your strength
The balance of power keeps shifting from one side to the other during the negotiation process
Negotiation will end when -The balance of power shifts totally to one side – a Win-Lose situation
When the balance of power is shared equally – a Win-Win situation 31 The Art of Negotiating Advesh Consultancy Services 1/14/2009
INTERACTING : INTERACTING 32 The Art of Negotiating Advesh Consultancy Services 1/14/2009
INTERACTING : INTERACTING Getting the other side to the Table
Getting off to a good start
Power of Anchoring
Using Concessionary moves
Tactics for Distributive negotiation
General Tactics 33 The Art of Negotiating Advesh Consultancy Services 1/14/2009
Getting the other side to the Table : Getting the other side to the Table Offer incentives
Put a price for on the status-quo
Mobilise Support 34 The Art of Negotiating Advesh Consultancy Services 1/14/2009
Getting off to a good start : Getting off to a good start Express respect for the other side’s experience and expertise
Frame the task positively, as a joint endeavour
Emphasise your openness to the other side’s interests and concerns.
Start with the agenda 35 The Art of Negotiating Advesh Consultancy Services 1/14/2009
Getting off to a good startSome tips : Getting off to a good startSome tips “Breaking Bread” Have coffee, snacks or light drinks available.
Use small talk to dispel tension
If the other side is very formal, don’t speak casually. If the other side is decidedly informal, speak in a more casual way. 36 The Art of Negotiating Advesh Consultancy Services 1/14/2009
Slide 37 : ACCOMMODATE
Build friendly relationship
Characteristics:
Promote harmony
Avoid substantive differences
Give into pressure to save relationship
Place relationship above fairness of
the outcomes COLLABORATE
Problem solved creatively, aiming for win-win
Characteristics:
Search for common interests
Problem-solving behaviours
Recognising both parties’ needs
Synergistic solutions
Win-win becomes the main purpose of the negotiator AVOIDTake whatever you can get/Inaction
Characteristics:
Feeling of powerlessness
Indifference to the result
Resignation, surrender
Take what the other party is willing to concede
Withdraw & remove = behaviour of negotiator DEFEAT
Be a winner at any cost/Competitive
Characteristics:
Win-Lose competition
Pressure/Intimidation
Adversarial relationships
Defeating the other becomes a goal for the negotiator COMPROMISE
Split the difference
Characteristics:
Meeting half way
Look for trade offs
Accept half-way measures
Aims to reduce conflict rather than problem solve synergistically LOW HIGH CONCERN FOR RELATIONSHIP CONCERN FOR SUBSTANCE HIGH 37 The Art of Negotiating Advesh Consultancy Services 1/14/2009
Distributive Negotiations : Distributive Negotiations Win-Lose Negotiations
Anchoring is an attempt to establish a reference point around which negotiations will make adjustments.
When should you anchor
Counter anchoring
Be prepared for concessionary moves 38 The Art of Negotiating Advesh Consultancy Services 1/14/2009
Integrative Negotiations : Integrative Negotiations Slower and more explorative opening
Don’t start with numbers.
Making a good start is critical
Ask open ended questions Probe the other side’s willingness to trade off one thing for the other.
Inquire about the other party’s underlying interests
Listen closely
Be an active listener
Express empathy
Work to create a two-way exchange of information
Continue relationship building efforts
Refrain from personal attacks.
Maintain a sense of humour 39 The Art of Negotiating Advesh Consultancy Services 1/14/2009
The Art of Listening : The Art of Listening 40 The Art of Negotiating Advesh Consultancy Services 1/14/2009
Nonverbal Behaviour : Nonverbal Behaviour What is going on
in the inside
shows
on the outside 1/14/2009 The Art of Negotiating Advesh Consultancy Services 41
Face and Head : Face and Head Broken Eye Contact(Hide)
Looking pat you(Bored)
Piercing(Angry)
Steady(Honest)
Head Turned slightly(Evaluating you)
Tilted Head(Uncertain about what you said)
Nodding(In agreement)
Smiling(Confident) 1/14/2009 The Art of Negotiating Advesh Consultancy Services 42
Arms and Hands : Arms and Hands Arms folded tightly(not receptive)
Arm over the back of the chair(need for dominance or negative reaction)
Open palms(Positive)
Hands clasped behind head(Need for dominance)
Steeling of the fingers(Need to control negotiation)
Hand wringling(Nervousness)
Self touching(General nervousness) 1/14/2009 The Art of Negotiating Advesh Consultancy Services 43
Legs : Legs Crossing your legs has a devastating effect
Out of 2000 videotaped sales meetings, not one sale was made by people who had their legs crossed
Source How to Read a Person like a Book by Gerard I. Nirenberg and Henry H. Calero 1/14/2009 The Art of Negotiating Advesh Consultancy Services 44
Dominance/Power : Dominance/Power Making piercing eye contact
Putting hands behind head or neck
Placing hands on hips
Standing while counterpart is seated
Steepling 1/14/2009 The Art of Negotiating Advesh Consultancy Services 45
Submission/Nervousness : Submission/Nervousness Fidgetting
Making minimum eye contact
Touching hands to face , hair etc
Using briefcase to “guard” body
Clearing throat 1/14/2009 The Art of Negotiating Advesh Consultancy Services 46
Disagreement/Anger : Disagreement/Anger Getting red
Pointing a finger
Squinting
Turning body away
Crossing arms or legs 1/14/2009 The Art of Negotiating Advesh Consultancy Services 47
Boredom and Lack of Interest : Boredom and Lack of Interest Failing to make eye contact
Playing with objects
Staring blankly
Picking at clothes
Looking at watch/door 1/14/2009 The Art of Negotiating Advesh Consultancy Services 48
Uncertainty/Indecision : Uncertainty/Indecision Cleaning glasses
Looking puzzled
Putting fingers to mouth
Biting lip
Tilting head 1/14/2009 The Art of Negotiating Advesh Consultancy Services 49
Suspicion/Dishonesty : Suspicion/Dishonesty Touching nose while speaking
Covering mouth
Avoiding eye contact
Crossing arms/legs
Moving body away 1/14/2009 The Art of Negotiating Advesh Consultancy Services 50
Evaluation : Evaluation Nodding
Maintaining good eye contact
Tilting head slightly
Stroking chin
Touching index finger to lips 1/14/2009 The Art of Negotiating Advesh Consultancy Services 51
Confidence, Cooperation and Honesty : Confidence, Cooperation and Honesty Leaning forward
Keeping arms and palms open
Maintaining great eye contact
Placing feet flat on floor
Sitting with legs uncrossed
Smiling 1/14/2009 The Art of Negotiating Advesh Consultancy Services 52
Challenges & Obstacles : Challenges & Obstacles 53 The Art of Negotiating Advesh Consultancy Services 1/14/2009
TACTICS REGARDING PRICE : TACTICS REGARDING PRICE Should I ever state my acceptable range?
Should I ever tell the other side my bottom line?
Suppose that the other side opens with an incredibly unreasonable number, should I counter with an equally unreasonable number, or decline to counter at all? 54 The Art of Negotiating Advesh Consultancy Services 1/14/2009
TACTICS REGARDING PROCESS : TACTICS REGARDING PROCESS Is it acceptable to make two moves at a time?
Is it smart or fair to bluff?
In a complex deal, is it better to reach agreement issue by issue or wait until the end?
Is it better to deal with difficult or easy issues first? 55 The Art of Negotiating Advesh Consultancy Services 1/14/2009
TACTICS REGARDING PEOPLE : TACTICS REGARDING PEOPLE Collaborative negotiator vs. positional hard bargainer?
How should I react if the other side seeks to change something in its offer after a deal has been reached?
What should I do when the negotiator on the other side has a temper tantrum?
I don’t believe in what the other side says.
Is it essential to negotiate face to face?
How should I react when the other side challenges my credentials, status or authority to make a deal? 56 The Art of Negotiating Advesh Consultancy Services 1/14/2009
CLOSURE : CLOSURE 1/14/2009 The Art of Negotiating Advesh Consultancy Services 57
Closing : Closing Be Prepared to Concede
Begin with those of Low Priority and seek High Priority Items
Never Concede on More than possible by your Brief
Use your Concessions Wisely
Don’t just give these away expect and receive something in return 58 The Art of Negotiating Advesh Consultancy Services 1/14/2009
Slide 59 : Being Confident
Being Prepared
Being Willing to Walk Away 59 The Art of Negotiating Advesh Consultancy Services 1/14/2009
Slide 60 : Convince
Collaborate
Create 60 The Art of Negotiating Advesh Consultancy Services 1/14/2009