ATTITUDE 1 : dntjnv@yahoo.co.in ATTITUDE 1 D.N. Tiwari
M.A. (ECO),M.ED.M.B.A (HRM),LL.B
PGT(Economics)
JNV, Bahraich(U.P.)
ATTITUDE : dntjnv@yahoo.co.in ATTITUDE An attitude is an orientation of mind towards persons objects, place and things in the light of certain values, which people consider desirable or undesirable. The orientation determines the actual and potential response of the individual in the given situation.
An attitude has a definite direction, positive or negative, It has an emotional aspect about it as it is accompanied by feeling and tension. It is deep rooted and relatively stable. Positive attitude is a positive orientation to values like kindness, courtesy, helpfulness and considerateness. It is accompanied by positive feelings of warmth, regard and respect. It is sufficiently ingrained so that it can stand the stresses and strains of life. Positive attitude not only improves one's effectiveness in the organization, but also contribute to mental and physical self-being.
Work must be done with a sense of pleasure and never looked upon as an unwanted burden. Attitude is the foundation of the success. 85% success depend upon positive attitude of the individual
FACTORS THAT DETERMINE OUR ATTITUDE. : dntjnv@yahoo.co.in FACTORS THAT DETERMINE OUR ATTITUDE. Environment
Experience
Education
Environment: : dntjnv@yahoo.co.in Environment: It consists of the following:
Home: Positive of negative influences.
School: Peer pressure.
Works: Supportive of over critical supervisor.
Media: T.V. Newspapers, Magazines, Radio, movies.
Cultural background
Religious and beliefs
Social environment
Political environment
Experiences: : dntjnv@yahoo.co.in Experiences: Our behavior changes according to our experiences with people and events in our life. If we have a positive experience with a person, our attitude towards him because positive and vice versa.
Education: : dntjnv@yahoo.co.in Education: Education ought to teach us not only how to make a living but also how to live.
QUALITIES OF A PERSONS HAVING POSITIVE ATTITUDE : dntjnv@yahoo.co.in QUALITIES OF A PERSONS HAVING POSITIVE ATTITUDE People with positive attitude have certain personality traits that are easy to recognize. They are earning confident, patient and humble. They have high expectations of them selves and others. They anticipated positive outcomes.
A person with a positive attitude is like a fruit of all seasons. He is always welcome.
The benefit of positive attitude: : dntjnv@yahoo.co.in The benefit of positive attitude: The positive attitude:
Increases productivity
Fosters team work
Solves problems
Improves quality
Makes for congenial atmosphere
Breeds loyalty
Increases profits
Foster better inter personal relations
Reduce stress
Helps a persons becomes a contributing member of society and an asset to their country.
Makes for a pleasing personality
Built a positive self - esteem.
THE CONSEQUENCES OF A NEGATIVE ATTITUDE : dntjnv@yahoo.co.in THE CONSEQUENCES OF A NEGATIVE ATTITUDE We become our biggest obstacle by having a negative attitude people with a negative have a hard time keeping friendships jobs marriage and relationships their attitude leads to :
Bitterness.
Resentment.
A purposeless life
ill health
High stress level for them selves and others.
They create a negative environment at home and work become liability to society.
CHANGING ATTITUDE : dntjnv@yahoo.co.in CHANGING ATTITUDE Attitude can be changed employees are most likely to respond to change efforts made by someone who is liked, credible and convincing Credibility implies trust, expertise and objectivity. So you are more likely to change an employees attitude if that employee sees you as believable, knowledgeable about what you are talking about, and unbiased in your presentation. Successful attitude change is enhanced when you present your arguments clearly and persuasively. Its easier to change an employee's attitude if he or she is not strongly committed to it Conversely, the stronger the belief about the attitude, the harder it is to change it. More over, attitude that have been expressed publicly are more difficult to change because it requires one to admit he or she has made a mistake.
Oral persuasion techniques are most effective when you use a positive, tactful tone, present strong evidence to support your argument to the listener, use logic, and support your evidence by appealing to the employee's fears, frustration and other emotions.
STEPS TO BUILDING A POSITIVE ATTITUDE : dntjnv@yahoo.co.in STEPS TO BUILDING A POSITIVE ATTITUDE Become aware of the Principle that build a positive attitude
Cultivate the discipline and dedication to those principles.
If we want to build and maintain a positive attitude, we need to
consciously practice the following steps:
1.Change focus, look for the positive
Be a good finder.
focus on the positive in a life.
Start looking for what is right in a person/situation.
Most people find that they are looking for .
Become a digger for gold.
Stopped clock is right twice a day.
Negative people will always criticize .
Their habit is fault finding, telling every body how bad things are, blaming whole world for their problems
WHO IS AN OPTIMIST : dntjnv@yahoo.co.in WHO IS AN OPTIMIST SO STRONG THAT NOTHING CAN DISTURB HIS PEACE OF MIND
TALK HEALTH, HAPPINESS AND PROSPERITY TO EVERY PERSON HE MEET
MAKE ALL HIS FRIENDS FEEL THERE IS SOME THING FOR THEM
LOOK AT SUNNY SIDE OF EVERY THING
THINK ONLY THE BEST, WORK ONLY FOR THE BEST AND EXPECT ONLY THE BEST
BE AS ENTHUSIATIC ABOUT THE SUCCESS OF THE OTHERS AS HE IS ABOUT HIS OWN
FORGET THE MISTAKES OF THE PAST AND PRESS ON TO THE GREATER ACHIEVEMENTS OF THE FUTURE
GIVE EVERY ONE A SMILE
SPEND SO MUCH TIME IMPROVING HIMSELF THAT NO TIME LEFT FOR CRITICISM OF OTHERS.
WHO IS A PESSIMIST? : dntjnv@yahoo.co.in WHO IS A PESSIMIST? PESSIMISTS:
ARE UNHAPPY WHEN THEY HAVE NO TROUBLE TO SPEAK OUT
FEELS BAD WHEN THEY FEEL GOOD
SPEND MOST OF THEIR LIFE AT COMPLAINT COUNTERS
ALWAYS TURNOUT THE LIGHT TO SEE HOW DARK IT IS
ARE ALWAYS LOOKING FOR CRACKS IN THE MIRROR OF LIFE
CANNOT ENJOY THEIR HEALTH BECAUSE THEY THINK THEY MAY BE SICK TOMMARROW
BELIEVE THAT THE SUNSHINES ONLY TO CAST SHADOWS
FORGET THEIR BLESSINGS AND COUNT THEIR TROUBLES
KNOW THAT HARDWORK NEVER HEARTS ANY ONE BUT BELIEVE “ WHY TAKE A CHANCE “
NOT ONLY TO EXPECT THE WORST BUT MAKE THE WORST OF WHATEVER HAPPENS
STOPS SLEEPING IN BED WHEN THEY HEAR THAT MORE PEOLE DIE INE BED THEN ANY WHERE ELSE
2. Make a habit of doing now : dntjnv@yahoo.co.in 2. Make a habit of doing now Procrastinated is a bad habit.
It leads to a negative attitude.
Complete task is fulfilling and energizing.
Incomplete task drains in energy like a leak from a tank.
Develop a habit of living in the present and doing it now.
Never be exquisite .
Life is not dress rehearsal , we have got only one shot at this game called life.
Make best use of now and utilize the present to fullest.
Utilizing our present to its fullest, we are sowing the seeds for a better future.
For developing positive attitude learn the phrase “ Do it Now” and stop procrastination.
3.Develop an attitude of gratitude : dntjnv@yahoo.co.in 3.Develop an attitude of gratitude It is a feeling of thankfulness towards others.
Count your blessings , not your troubles.
Take time to smell roses.
Never focus on complaining about things we do not have but there is a lot to be thank full for.
Attitude of gratitude teaches us the art of cooperation and understanding.
4. Get into a continuous education program : dntjnv@yahoo.co.in 4. Get into a continuous education program Intellectual education influences the head & values based education influence the heart.
To develop character education need to develop honesty, compassion, courage, courtesy , persistence and responsibility.
True education is training both head and heart
Feed your mind.
Learning is like eating food.
Positive thinkers are like athlete.
5. Build a Positive self esteem : dntjnv@yahoo.co.in 5. Build a Positive self esteem Self esteem is the way we feel about yourself.
When feel good, our performance goes up , our relationship improves.
Direct relation between feeling and behavior also enhance their productivity.
Self esteem is major component in detraining in success or failure.
Read life histories of successful people who have turned a negative into a positive
1. Beettio Ven (deaf)
2. Milton ( Blind)
3. US president Franklin D Roosevelt ( wheelchair)
Helping others as you would expect others to help you gives a feeling of gratification
Going without having expectations or getting in return raises one’s self esteem.
Give your self positive auto suggestions
I can handle it
I can do it
I have a good memory
6. Stay away from negative influences : dntjnv@yahoo.co.in 6. Stay away from negative influences Most people go to their graves with music still in them.
Due to lack of our vision, we do not achieve excellence.
Associate with achievers.
Do not let negative people drag you down.
Smoking, drugs & alcohol .
Pornography
Negative movies and television program.
Rock music
7. Learn to like the things that need to be done8. Start your day with positive : dntjnv@yahoo.co.in 7. Learn to like the things that need to be done8. Start your day with positive 9. Pride of performance
10. Willing to be a learner
WINNERS V/S LOOSERS : dntjnv@yahoo.co.in WINNERS V/S LOOSERS THE WINNER IS ALWAYS A PART OF ANSWER WHILE LOOSER IS ALWAYS A PART OF PROBLEM
THE WINNER ALWAYS HAVE A PROGRAMME WHILE LOOSER ALWAYS HAS A EXCUSE
THE WINNER SAYS, “ LET ME DO IT FOR YOU”. THE LOOSERS, “ THAT IS NOT MY JOB”
THE WINNER SEES AN ANSWER FOR EVERY PROBLEM. THE LOOSER SEES A PROBLEM FOR EVERY ANSWER.
THE WINNER SAYS, “ IT MAY BE DIFFICULT BUT POSSIBLE. THE LOOSER SAYS, “IT MAY BE POSSIBLE BUT TOO DIFFICULT”.
WHEN A WINNER MAKES A MISTAKES, HE SAYS, “ I WAS WRONG.” WHEN A LOOSER MAKES A MISTAKES, HE SAYS, “ IT WAS NOT MY FAULT.”
A WINNER MAKES COMMITMENT. A LOOSER MAKES PROMISES.
WINNER HAVE DREAMS. LOOSER HAVE SCHEMES.
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WINNERS V/S LOOSERS : dntjnv@yahoo.co.in WINNERS V/S LOOSERS WINNERS SAYS “ I MUST DO SOME THING”. THE LOOSER SAYS “ SOME THING MUST BE DONE”.
WINNER ARE A PART OF THE TEAM. LOOSER ARE APART FROM THE TEAM.
WINNERS SEE THE GAIN. WHILE LOOSER SEE THE PAIN.
WINNER SEE POSSIBILITIES. LOOSER SEE PROBLEMS.
WINNERS BELIEVE IN WIN/WIN POSITION. LOOSER BELIEVE IN WIN FOR THEM AND SOMEONE HASE TO LOOSE.
WINNER ARE A THERMOSTATE. LOOSERS ARE LIKE A THERMOMETERE.
WINNERS USE HARD AURGUMENTS BUT SOFT WORDS. LOOSER USE SOFT AURGUMENTS AND HARD WORDS
WINNERS V/S LOOSERS : dntjnv@yahoo.co.in WINNERS V/S LOOSERS WINNERS STAND FIRMS ON VALUES BUT COMPROMISE ON PETTY THINGS. LOOSER STAND FIRM ON PETTY THINGS BUT COMPROMISE ON VALUES
WINNER FOLLOW THE PHILOSOPHY OF EMPATHY. “DONOT DO TO OTHERS WHAT YOU NOT WANT THEM TO DO TO YOU”. LOOSER FOLLOW THE PHILOSOPHY “ DO IT TO OTHERS BEFOR THEY DO IT TO YOU”
WINNERS MAKE IT HAPPEN. LOOSER LET IT HAPPEN
Slide 23 : dntjnv@yahoo.co.in The aim of education is not only to prepare a man to succeed in life & society but to increase his perfectibility to its utmost.
Sri Aurobindo
PRINCIPLES OF SUCCESS : dntjnv@yahoo.co.in PRINCIPLES OF SUCCESS 1. Work Hard 2. Self-Sacrifice 3. Self-Forgetfulness
Slide 25 : dntjnv@yahoo.co.in 4. Universal Love 5. Cheerfulness 6. Fearlessness 7. Self-Reliance
To be Successful…. : dntjnv@yahoo.co.in To be Successful…. Maintain a high self esteem. Contd…..
Slide 27 : dntjnv@yahoo.co.in Always choose the right friends. Contd…..
Slide 28 : dntjnv@yahoo.co.in Try to notice, as soon as possible,if someone is tricking you. Contd…..
Slide 29 : dntjnv@yahoo.co.in Never stop being inquisitive. Contd…..
Slide 30 : dntjnv@yahoo.co.in Rest and relax. Contd…..
Slide 31 : dntjnv@yahoo.co.in Sometimes, think about the past. Contd…..
Slide 32 : dntjnv@yahoo.co.in Take care of yourself. Contd…..
Slide 33 : dntjnv@yahoo.co.in And, if nothing else helps, act stupid!
Slide 34 : dntjnv@yahoo.co.in Thank you